Frickin' money and class and houses and shiz

Prompted by one of my favouritist podcasters and bloggers, Fire Lyte of Inciting a Riot, I've decided to get huffy about how people classify or evaluate someone who regards themselves as pagan.

Fire Lyte got an email from someone having a hissy fit about how pagans aren't middle class and have no money because...that's how it works.

No...just NO! You cannot evaluate a pagan by what's in their bank account, what job they have or how big their house is.
One of the main reasons that the previous does not matter is that many, many pagans are firmly in the closet. For a lot of people their everyday life has little bearing on their pagan life. Full stop.
Furthermore, being a pagan has, by it nature, more to do with the inner self. Y'know, that little cricket that chirps in your head telling you to do good? It's about balance and being the best kind of human being you can be.

Maybe it shouldn't be about how much money you have but what you do with it? A pagan earns 100,000 per annum. Deduct 20% after taxes and give that to a charity. That's a pretty darn nice thing to do.
Giving what you have in excess to help those with little or nothing is a good thing to do. It shows qualities that bring hope and joy to the human race. Qualities like compassion and empathy, a drive to help others for the sake of helping.

Not many species out there can act altruistically but it's definitely a characteristic that we can boast about.

It doesn't matter what street you live on, whether you're white, black or asian, how much dosh you've got tucked away or who your mum and dad was.


Because it takes all kinds of people to be a pagan. There is no law that excludes. There is no dogma that dictates. We are given leave to govern our own decisions and to decide what is right for the world. So why, when given a responsibility like that, do some people feel the need to get a little too big for their boots and 'take charge'?
It might be part of the human condition to dictate and govern, it might be in our nature. But we have control over our nature. And if some people don't, they might want to consider their path and motives a little more carefully.

Love you all
xxx Aria

Music, thump...meow

Odd title yes?
Well I'm feeling a little odd today, better but still odd.

I moved (kind of) into my new house last week and I love it! I've finally got a double bed and there's even a FIREPLACE in my room. It doesn't work but it sure does look purdy.
I also tested the walking distance from my university library to the house...3 minutes. I'm telling you, I struck gold!
The only bad thing, it's a little creepy at night. The staircase is really steep and the entrance to the attic is a window...so you're walking up stairs and there's this creepy window that's just there...something even creepier might pop out!
Now I'm sure I've just the victim of over active imagination but does anything still scare you? The dark, spiders, y'know...stuff like that? Seriously, what silly little things scare you?
I feel five years old whenever I go near that staircase in the dark hehe. That covers the 'thump' in the title because it's meant as a scary thump.

As for the 'Music', I'm having a very tuneful day :) I've got my playlist going as I get started on my work for next university year. Schizophrenia, very upbeat subject no?
Woops, got distracted and have lost my train of thought. My mother is watching a period drama and forgot to tell me so grr!

I'm sorry this blog has ended up being more about me that paganism but the pagan thing isn't really happening for me right now. There's so much I want to do but it's all getting pushed aside in favour of blooming life angst.

I'm going to start with Esbats I guess :). I've never celebrated an Esbat and I'm not sure what to do exactly. Any help from my dearest readers would be much appreciated on that front.
What do you do for your Esbat celebrations? I may head over to the Pagan Hooligans website because they did a podcast on Esbats :)

So please send some handy hints my way!!
xxx Aria

Connecting with YOUR deity

Hello one and all :D


I know I've been very neglectful with my posting. For this I am sorry. I intend to pick it up a bit more in the coming weeks. I hope you all understand why!


Anyways, here in my little piece of the world it is VEEEERY cold. Like, 'is it winter?' cold. I don't dislike this really...I'm much more of a wintery person. I love the crisp crunch of autumn leaves beneath my sheepskin coated feet and the smell of that white wonderland making stuff, SNOW! So I can't really complain about the snow...coz I has many jumpers!


As many, many of you will know the pagan community lost a great man recently. I hope Isaac Bonewits' passing was calm and easy, and he has found his way to his next chapter. If any of you would be lovely (as I know you all are) enough to send some healing and helping energy to Isaac's family and friends I'm sure your wonderful contribution would be of some help.


Now, I was asking myself quite and important question this week.


How do I view deity?


I know lots of people who view deity as a being, perhaps not a physical being, but a being. Something one can communicate with and which will answer and guide it's worshippers. Of course, this kind of being can come in many forms. Namely (and to be more specicific), Gods. Venus, Zeus, Hecate, Hera, Artemis, Aradia, Anansi, Isis, Horus, Thoth, Thor, Odin...Yea, you can see where I'm going with this haha!
Gods that are born of culture, some current and some ancient, and who have continued in our universe. Most people I know, view deity in this way.


A few pagans I know view deity as one big whole thing. So all of those Gods I just mentioned are part of a whole. I don't think that makes each God less important but it connects them all (whether or not said Gods might want to be connected...ooo controversial hehe).


Some pagans or wiccans I know view deity as a supreme mother and father of all of the universe. I like this as it encompasses all facets of life and all aspects of ourselves as these two great beings are very humanistic. They look human, they act human (are born, live, reproduce and die) so I think lots of people can relate to them.


Ok, nearly there :). Finally, from the people I know of (because the list of 4 I've come up with can't possibly cover everyone!) there is one more view of deity. This might be the one I relate to best. I see deity as everything. Deity and, more importantly, the Divine, is absolutely everywhere. It's in people, it's in rocks, it's in cake. Nature is divine, the sky is divine, the stars, moon and planets are all divine.
They've been made, not for us (us being people) but because that's how the story of the universe has unfolded. Because it's here, because I can see it and touch it and feel it, it is divine. 


Perhaps I've come off a little crazy (oops) but that's not my intention. Think of it this way, some people dedicate their lives to trying to figure out what happens when we die. So much so that they forget to live.


So answer me this lovelies, how do you view your deity? What's you concept of the divine?
I'd love to hear your thoughts :D


xxx Aria

New Home and Happy Lughnasadh!

Hi everyone!!

I decided the other day that I needed to move the blog. I love wordpress but it's too tricky for me to fiddle with. I know that with blogspot I can alter and shuffle without ruining the whole thing!
Anyways, that's boring. The point is, WELCOME! I hope you like what I've done with the place and continue to be wonderful readers :)

Also, Happy Lughnasadh wherever you are! I hope you have a completely awesome day. Blessings to you, your families and friends. You are all magnificent and deserve a jolly good pat on the back!

So have a mooch about and let me know what you think of the new digs :D
xxx Aria

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